Have you ever...bad boys

Have you ever thought that bad boys are sometimes more appealing than the nice guys?

My answer is YES! ;)

Define 'bad boys' in general (not the drinking and sleeping with anyone anytime kind)...

1- They don't always follow the rules

2 - They are spontaneous

3- They are funny yet annoying at times

4- They like to talk about themselves, not excessively though. Enough for you to sense the high level of confidence

5 - Love to entertain girls who are clearly attracted to them. If you are the girlfriend, dont you just wanna hit them on the head? But for some (stupid) reasons, you love them still. (weird)

6 - It's rare to hear they say something nice. So, if they compliment you, you'd feel extra special. You'd know it is exclusively for you.

7- They aren't neccessarily good-looking, but they have their special charm. A natural conversationist. Perhaps more of a sweet talker?

8- In some cases, they can be quite a silent/shy one. A lone-ranger. The mysterious type.

9 -Act casually over something big (ego? Control macho? Not exciting for them? I can't figure)

10-Flirt with most girls, with or without bad intentions, i don't know.

11- Somehow, I like to relate them to music...a guitar player? haha

12 -Has no future planning (this is the not-so-appealing part), which boils down to financial insecurity from a girl's point of view.

13 - Your parents foresee that you'd have no future together and believe you deserve someone better (can't blaim them)

14 -Back to the music thingy...they prefer to spend lavishly on musical instruments like electric drum or an amplifier, but always have silly excuses to top-up their phone credit. No credit means no calls, no sms-es. Keep you waiting and anticipating.

15 - Somehow....you seem to have heaps of fun when you're around them.

Add more to the list if you have come across the bad-boys type.

Well..well..well...

Of course in the end, you'll choose someone with proper job and make a good living, ambitious, has goals in life, family-oriented, love you and want to spend time with you, understand your wants and needs, LOYAL and most importantly you are his top priority. Yes, these vital attributes. The reflection of a perfect husband.

But when you're still young, you don't deliberate on these kind of things. You simply like what you like. The matter of right and wrong comes second. Perhaps it's human imperfection, to be conciously/unconciously indulged in what's not good for them.

So......

For me, bad boys described above are appealing at some point. It is true, that most of the time they make you feel exceptional! Alive and kicking. But they also come with heartache and the feeling of being neglected.

So, strike a balance and be smart. Every girl must put a standard on what she wants in life, on how she wants to/should be treated, on her future expectations. Maybe not a clear picture, but a rough guideline. Afterall, bad boys won't stick the way they are forever, they are just being young and free (and immature). Naturally the good essences do exist somewhere in them! Haha So, play along and educate them. They'll grow mature eventually like any other men on earth at one point. So if you thing your guy is this bad boy type, hang on to them. Kasi peluang.

On the other hand, for those who've already found the nice guys, do not keep them loose! You are among the lucky ones. Trust me, you're not missing on anything. Besides, who says the nice guys have no charms, boring and lifeless?

Heh!

The bad boy we adore

The nice guy we should embrace